Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Thorny Issues, Life

Today Isaac had his tonsils and adenoids taken out. He went from a happy, exuberant little boy, "on a flying dolphin!" as he was wheeled to his surgery room. . . to a gasping, choking, shaking, crying little boy with a voice he has never had before. He sounds like one of his little friends with a lisp.

I love my son, and loved him through the whole day.

And I hated Walmart Pharmacy today. I requested to have Isaac's meds sent to Walgreens, but someone sent them to Walmart instead, and Walmart didn't have Isaac's info. So they didn't fill his prescriptions! I was so frustrated because he needed pain medication and the pharmacy made me wait half an hour for it. In the Walmart parking lot with my children. In a snow storm. I almost cried leaving Walmart when I heard that news. Thankfully, we all survived, but not without a bitter taste in our mouths--terrible pun intended.

Tonight, after putting kids down, I concentrated on my class. I don't ever want my teaching to interrupt my parenting, but it does. Heavy grading weeks make me wish for a mother's helper, or someone to swap kids with. By the way, it is apparently fine to end sentences with prepositional phrases now, and I am adjusting to that freedom.

I want to be an awesome mother and an awesome teacher. And I am working on it. It means I don't get very much/any down time sometimes, and then it's a good thing that I am challenged by and love my job.

I feel awe and gratitude that I have my job. I also feel that for my children, but the "awe" is often muffled by fatigue and impatience. I guess the "awe" is muffled in my job, too:). So I'll work on honoring my blessings.

4 comments:

Decker and Christine said...

We can end sentences with prepositions now? That feels very, very wrong. Sigh.

That phrase really wasn't the thing that stood out most in my mind from your post. I am so sorry you had to deal with Walmart. I just hate that store in general, and try to stay away from it as much as I can. How is Isaac feeling today? You are an amazing mom, and if you were in Atlanta, I would absolutely trade kids with you (Or, I guess if I was in Idaho...but then I'd have to deal with snowstorms, too). Your kids and your students are both so lucky to have you.

Jenn said...

I had my tonsils out while they fixed my blocked nose and it was the most painful surgery ever (and boy did they lie about the pain level before I signed on for it). I have heard it's a bit better for kids, but man alive I feel so bad for your little guy. Walmart is the worst no doubt about it, and I have always been a fan of breaking as many grammatical rules as possible (except for spelling). I finished my english degree without having taken a single grammar class. Aren't you properly scandalized? It is probably a necessary evil, but mostly I just consider it evil. Grammar is the math of english.

alexandra said...

I totally know what you mean, but I don;t have another job demanding my time and sapping my energy. I am in awe of you! Poor little Isaac. I hope he is all better now.

Valeri Crockett said...

I know so many kids getting adenoids and tonsils out, yuck!!! I'm so sorry he had to have that done...and how frustrating about the pharmacy thing!